Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Adjustments or What I've Learned from my Mother the last 2 Weeks

My mother dancing at a Breast Cancer Awareness "Pink Party"
I am becoming more and more aware that we all are in a constant state of adjustment: to what life throws at us, to people who disappoint us, to misconceptions that surprise us, and to new ideas and/or new places.  And watching my mother adjust to a new home, new friends, new medicines, new doctors, and a new routine gives me hope.  I never dreamed my mother would transition so well in the first 2 weeks  from her home of about 50 years to an apartment in assisted living in Memphis.  She is homesick, of course, but she is trying to adjust.  It's not what she chose, not what she bargained for, but there it is.  And having Lewy Body Disease is certainly not a disease selection she would have chosen.  But she is a fighter and she is a "pusher througher".  Something I hope to be able to be when my chips are down.  Some things you just cannot change or reverse but you can adjust !  "For your Father knows what you need before you ask Him."  Mathew 6:8

2 comments:

Oreo said...

God bless you all. My mom entered assisted living this summer and already had to move into skilled nursing. Adult hydrocephalus was her undoing. She seems content where she is and I'm comforted by the fact that she is in good hands. I love the way you can always find something positive in any situation.

Gail B. Pollard said...

My Mom came to live here in an assisted living in Sept. She absolutely loves it. She adjusted so well. She asks about your mom alot. I will tell her. She and Hope talk regularly. She told me to thank you for getting her Hope's number. I hope all goes well with your Mom. Speaking of Mom's, I am off right now to pick mine up for lunch and a hair cut. Much love and thoughts for you. BTW - Happy Birthday!!!